Okay. Not so much of a dilemma. Maybe it is. Maybe it's not. I don't know. At least to me it is.
You know how for hygiene purposes you should trim/ shave your hair (Read: armpit and pubic) and frankly speaking, personally, I like to be hairless, like really hairless on every part of my body. However, my genes doesn't bless my with a hairless body. I end up with having armpits, pubic, chest, tummy, shoulders, back, legs and thighs hair. Oh also my butt and my hole too (the horror of that). I can shave my armpits and pubic hair but then because of my perfectionist trait, I hate to think that I'd be hairless on my armpits and pubic but 'fertilized' on every other part of my body. Just doesn't seem to be appetizing to me. Waxing is the perfect way for me (at least that I can think of anyway) but because I have body image issues, I really don't want to go to a waxing salon, naked and getting a wax.
So, the dilemma is, should I just let things grow without any interference or should I just shaved parts that I can shave or I should just get over my body image issues and get a wax?
P.S. I really, absolutely hate my shoulders and back hair!
P.P.S. Interestingly enough, I kind of have a fetish of hairy men. Hmmmm ...